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I think what I like about the new guy is that he has a lot of the qualities I loved and adored in my husband. Honest, unpretentious, grounded, reliable, kind, witty, supportive, compassionate, a good listener and communicator, deep thinker, strong values based on The Rule, civic-minded, respected and loved by the circles he travels in, WYSIWIG, not a trace of "bad boy". women would consider someone like that boring but to me, it spells good news. I observe how he treats his friends and family, waiters, homeless people, or, even when he doesn't know I'm looking, and I put more stake in that than his courteous treatment of me. I couldn't care less that he is an inch shorter than me, or that his fashion sense is challenged. He is a genuinely good person, and I know one when I one. He'll have his flaws like anyone but absolutely nothing that sends up early red flags. The difference to my husband is that my DH was a bone-dry scientist, and this guy is creative, and we both hail from the same (foreign) culture which bonds us and helps us to relate on a level I was never able to share with my DH. So I am looking forward to the journey wherever it takes us.